Proverbs 17-19

“Starting a quarrel is like breaching a dam” (17:14). The Proverbs urge us to avoid or quickly end conflict. Seeking to provoke others or looking for ways to stir up disagreements is wrong; if one “loves quarrels”, one “loves sin” (17:19). Rather than approaching life assuming everyone is an enemy, we are to be people who “cover over offenses” (17:9), show “restraint” with our words (17:27), find practical ways to “settle disputes” quickly (18:18), and listen before answering (18:13).

The wisdom of Proverbs opposes today’s angry, combative culture, revealing its dangers. Rather than following the world, we follow the One who teaches us: “Blessed are the peacemakers” (Matt 5:9).